How will I know that my guy loves me?
GASE SAYS It’s very easy to see it in his eyes if he truly loves you; it’s also in the way he treats you…in what he says and how he says it, in what he does and how he does it. Someone who doesn’t love...
View ArticleI can’t trust women, Should I become gay?
I’m a 22- year- old guy who is heartbroken because my girlfriend cheats on me. I forgave her more than once but she keeps on repeating although she had said it was a mistake the first time it happened....
View ArticlePressure of life are making me suicidal
Hi, I’m a 19- year -old girl. I completed my form five in 2013 and had a gap year in 2014. I then tried applying everywhere but I haven’t been accepted anywhere. I also wanted to do volunteer work but...
View ArticleMy husband is abusive
I am a 26 year-old- lady and I got married in 2013. My husband moved from our matrimonial house to go and stay with his parents. He is always shouting at me in the presence of other people. He doesn’t...
View ArticleWe want Ask Gase on Facebook
Dear Gase, Thank you for your STRAIGHT TALKING PROBLEM PAGE. You are changing many lives…keep it up the good work. I personally recommend that you open a Facebook page, so that u can help many people....
View ArticleMy Ex denies me access to the children
The mother of my two children (a son and a daughter) does not want me to check on the kids at all and she doesn’t allow them to visit me. I was instructed to pay P300-00 every month for...
View ArticleShe loves me more
I’m in a relationship with a girl whose father is my colleague at work and we are also neighbours. He doesn’t know about my relationship with his daughter; if/when he finds out he is not going to like...
View ArticleShe ignores my calls
I need your help Sis Gase. I’m in a relationship with someone I’m intending to get married to very soon. But just recently she started behaving in a strange manner. At times she does not answer the...
View ArticleI’m in love with a cheat
Compliments, hope this mail finds you in good health. I want you to assist me. I am dating a lady of the same age. I love her. The problem I have is that whenever there is a problem brought about by...
View ArticleI need him to pay child maintenance
We went to court early 2010 and the father of my child was asked to pay the amount of P350.00 per month via my bank, Ever since our court day he deposited only one payment and stopped sending money...
View ArticleConversation with Superboy
Superboy: Umh! I’m caught up in my indecision; I once wrote to you about my relationship with a girl who is now my ex. We broke up because she misbehaves even towards her mum. Now I think she wants...
View ArticleHello, Its Superboy Again!
My girlfriend just behaves like a child who has no respect for her parent, and not only for her mum but for her older sister too. In the beginning when we started dating she presented herself as an...
View ArticleMy boyfriend paid lobola for his baby mama
Hi Gase… I’m in deep love with a man and our relationship was improving day by day, but then I discovered that beginning of 2015 he paid lobola for his baby mama. Though that was before we met he...
View ArticleMy man is addicted to sex
Dear Gase, I think I am dating a guy who is kind of a sex addict. The reason why I feel this way is because ever since this relationship started there was never a time where we would be together...
View ArticleShe wats me to choose between her and my business partner
Dear Gase, I’m in a relationship (6yrs) with one lovely lady. She recently found one gentleman in my house whom I have befriended because we have the same business interests and now she wants me to...
View ArticleHe lied about his HIV+ status
Good day. I have a problem, I am in a relationship with this man and I love him very much. I discovered that he is HIV positive after I found ARVs in his bag. I confronted him and then he told me...
View ArticleMy girlfriend is not honest
I met my girlfriend in September 2014; everything was going well until last year in December when I discovered that she is married. After I asked her about her marriage she told me that she had filed...
View ArticleMy Boyfriend is Secretive
I am in a relationship and have been dating this guy for about five years. We used to fight and afterwards we’d sort everything out and get back to normal. The problem is that he is not open at all but...
View ArticleConversations from Facebook
Faras says: Hi Gase, people always talk of “Follow your dreams”, but getting started is always a challenge if you don’t have funds. Gase says: True…it’s very, very tough when there are no funds to set...
View ArticleBaby Daddy’s Woman Insults me
DEAR GASE: I have a problem: the woman who stays with my baby daddy keeps hurling insults at me, calling me an old woman. Help me please! GASE SAYS: Tell your baby daddy to put a leash on her and if...
View ArticleShe has gold digger tendencies
I’m a fervid fan of your page and I make sure that every weekend I get a copy of The Voice specifically for your page. I have been dating this young lady for almost one and half years now and our...
View ArticleI am in love with a liar
Hi Gase, I seriously need advice. I’m a lady of 24 years dating a man of 34. We have been dating for 2 years but I feel he is not honest with me and I also have proof that he’s lying. There are rumours...
View ArticleShe denies me access to my son
I have a serious problem; I had a baby boy with my girlfriend and after the baby was born everything went well as I was supporting my baby mama and my baby boy (child maintenance); by that time I was...
View ArticleShe wants me back but I’ not interested
My dearest Gase, I have decided to swallow my pride and expose my behinds because of the latent heat of misery. The old adage that ‘big guys don’t cry’ can’t sustain my emotions anymore. My misery...
View ArticleI’m a changed man
Hi lady! I am no more a worried man but a revamped one. You gave me one of the most insightful pieces of advice of my life and that’s why it took me some days to respond. I have been going through your...
View ArticleConversation with Lebogang
Dear Gase, hi! It’s me again; the young lady who contacted you last time about a boyfriend whose phone is always on silent mode. Last week he forgot his other phone while he went to buy something from...
View ArticleAbused at six years of age
During my childhood there was this cousin of mine who used to have sex with me and I was 5/6 years old at the time. Right now when I think about him I get so angry that my anger even affects my current...
View ArticleI need a solution to patches on the face
I have dark patches on my face and lighter patches on my left hand; what is the solution for that? GASE SAYS… Hello. You need to find a skin doctor i.e. a Dermatologist who will first investigate the...
View ArticleBaby mama drama
Hi, I recently broke up with the mother of my child in a not so good manner…and I take full responsibility for the break up; I think it’s for the best that we have parted ways. She is now denying me...
View ArticleRemembering the forgotten
Every week we hear and read about sexual abuse of minors, People living with Disability, and other vulnerable members of our society. What will it take to end this madness? We salute all the men and...
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